August 21, 2009

Honey Money

Ever seen a pretty young girl, married to a rich bald old man?

This is a twisted era, whereby the worth of a man is judge by the size of his wallet and that the poor are mocked instead of the sinful.

Someone once told me that girls should choose to marry a rich man whom she can live with, rather than a poor man whom she cannot live without. This kind of thought scares me. They say you ain't gonna get any honey without money, so what's the big surprise?

Now this is what I'm wonder, and this is what I'm asking - Why do a huge portion of women choose to marry a rich man, rather than aiming to become capable and successful by their own effort?
Since the introduction of "girl power" by the Spices Girls, every female around you began having opinions about everything all of a sudden. To top it off, they advocate sexual equality claiming that they are as capable as men and blah blah blah...

These women, are absolute hypocrites, their "equality" is a lie! They want to have equal rights, equal opportunities, equal respect, but superior treatment from their husbands and the society.

I strongly agree on sexual equality, but I mean EQUALITY, not superiority.

Money causes lot of argument in marriage or relationship. The usual quarrel involves either of the following 2 scenarios:-
1- Man tries to save money and woman calls him stingy, saying that he values money over her.
2- Man spends too much money and woman scolds him for not knowing how to control his finances.

I don't know how this all began but men are always expected to be the one who's paying the bills, yet So whatever it is, it seems that we males are at the losing end when it comes to the financial battle in relationships.

2 comments:

zw~ said...

i totally agree that us girls should strive to be independent and not marry some rich guy just to feed on his money.. Such shameless acts shouldn't be condoned at all..

kaizhi said...

Pretty true generally. I like your blog. Please have a tagboard and update!! =)